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Tuesday, April 23, 2013

RELATIONSHIPS: 5 Things You Must Not Do After A breakup..

Dealing with a breakup can be a very painful and
confusing experience. A lot of emotions run
through you and you are likely to take rash
decisions if care is not taken. Here are a few things
you must NOT do after a breakup:
1, Don’t Beg:
For God’s sake, don’t beg! Begging after a breakup
only makes matters worse. It makes you appear
pathetic and it can be very irritating. Maybe you
don’t understand why it ended. Maybe you think it
ended for the wrong reasons. Maybe you’d just
rather be in a bad relationship than be in no
relationship at all. No matter what you do, don’t
beg for him/her to return. Deep down, you know
that you don’t want to be in a relationship with
someone you had to beg to be with you. Besides, if
your ex rejects you a second time, it won’t just
hurt; the rejection will sting with extra humiliation
and regret
2, Don’t Seek revenge:
Don’t seek revenge. It serves no purpose and it will
only make you feel worse about yourself. Don’t
destroy his things, don’t speak evil of her. The thrill
of revenge only feeds bitterness and hatred. You
may have been deeply wronged, but “getting even”
won’t heal any wounds. Forgive and move on. Carry
your head high and spend your energy on people
who deserve it.
3, Don’t Communicate:
Don’t continue to communicate regularly with your
ex. Breakups leave a void in your heart where your
ex once occupied but constant calling and texting
won’t fill that void. Every time you drop the phone
without saying “I love you”, your heart will break all
over again. Many people feel lost after a breakup;
not because they miss their ex, but because so
many of their daily habits once revolved around
someone else. Give yourself some time to adapt to
single life.
4, Don’t Visit Their Facebook:
Social media can be a heartbroken person’s worst
nightmare. Resist the urge to post anything about
your breakup online, don’t insult your ex on twitter
and don’t be a constant visitor to his/her Facebook
page. Seeing pictures of your ex happy or with
someone else can compound your problem and
make your life more miserable than it probably
already is.
5, Don’t Give up.
Regardless of how the breakup made you feel, don’t
let it destroy your hope. Continue taking care of
yourself. Take some time to refocus and pursue the
things you’ve always loved to do. Spend time with
loved ones. You found love before and you will find
it again. Learn what you can from the relationship
that just ended and move forward. Don’t give up on
meeting your perfect match. Be thankful that the
wrong relationship ended to free you up for the
right one.

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