1. Many African ladies will end up singles for life
because of media exposure- it is so disheartening
how a lady will glue her eyes on a mobile phone
from morning to night, only to raise it up to focus
on television to watch another celebrity
entertainment channel. Tell me, what else will
dominate this lady’s mindset aside how to live a
fake celebrity life being promoted on television
channels?
2. Many African ladies now dislike cooking and
home chores just because they had been totally
brainwashed by movies showcasing men playing
the role of women in a family, and due to excessive
exposure to modern media that promotes gender-
equality in a destructive way that’s aimed at
destroying the unique African family setting that
made our previous African marriages everlasting
and envious to the westerns. Now, with this
attitude, how do you expect a African man to
desire to marry when he knows he is only buying
more headache and trouble than helper for
himself?
3. Excessive makeup turns most decent and
serious-minded men off- if you have observed, you
will discover that most men dislike excessive
makeup, and more don’t even like it at all; reason
they often times discourage their true loved ones to
do away with it cos it speaks ill of a lady even
though so many men will applaud and complement
you for looking like an Egyptian mummy. A slight
makeup is okay; but if you are out for marriage, try
always to look simple and natural, it will attract
better men, decent and serious-minded, except you
are still living in your high school life and not
thinking towards marriage.
4. Stop Giving Your Number Out To Every Joystick
& Harry! No man would want to propose marriage
to a lady whose phone is always talking and
laughing with unserious calls. You may not be a
playgirl, but he would judge you as one, and will
likely flee at the slightest chance or disagreement.
5. You Don’t Bring Any Value Into The Life Of Men
You Date or Are Dating- because your best friend
married without contributing anything to the man
that finally married her, doesn’t mean it will work
for you that way. Think, work towards equipping
yourself so that you can be a value and also add
value to his life to convince him that you are worth
committing to. Adding value to his life isn’t by
giving him money, or material gifts, nope….good
counsels, being his best friend, helping him attain
his goals in life, lending him moral, mental and
spiritual support, and by not just being a liability
that only bring requests and problems to be solved.
6. Your Friends Run Your Life- how do you expect
to find a husband when you still allow your clique
of friends to be dictating which man you meet is
worthy of your love and which is not? When will
you wake up and face the fact that those your best
friends even though they cherish you, wouldn’t
want you to marry before them or to marry the best
man?
7. You Give Everything Out During Dating- As a
single lady who has not been taken to the altar, you
need to reserve some things for your husband to be,
especially your body, respect it and preserve it at all
cost. In the past, men rushed to marry to get
certain things or privileges they had been
constantly denied while being single. Such
privileges include and not limited to: constant s*x
and companionship, good food and tidied home,
etc. But today, a single man gets even the best and
of course more of constant s*x, good food and
excellent home-keeping more than his married
counterparts, so tell me how the hell you want him
to desire to marry you when you have given him
virtually everything he desires from a wife while
being his girlfriend? And the most painful part of it
all is that he knows that you are prepared to cut
down on s*x supply, cooking, home-keeping, etc
once he marries you, so why would he not want you
to remain his girlfriend for life?
8. You Package Yourself Wrongly- in your attempt
to look sexy, adorable and maybe appealing to guys,
you have derailed from appealing to appalling. In
fact you look more whorish than modest; more
distractive than attractive, and more disgusting
than adorable. Your dressing style determines who
gets attracted to you most times. If you dress high
school, only high school-thinking guys will be
attracted to you, and if you dress excessively sexy
and provocative, only randy men will come to you
for urgent satisfaction of their immediate s*x urge,
so don’t be fooled by media hyping of certain kinds
of dressing, they are meant for certain set of ladies
you wouldn’t like to be associated with, be careful.
Remember, not all clothes that look sexy are good
for a seriously searching for a soul mate single lady.
9. You Lack Manner, Character, Wisdom and Good
Home Upbringing- definitely, your ‘hot girl’, ‘pretty
girl’, ‘sexy girl’ looks will win you so many men;
both the good, and the bad, but your inner beauty,
your character and manner are the things that will
determine whether any of those men would stay or
run after accomplishing their evil missions. In
order words, do away with nagging, being
possessive, challenging with men in negative ways,
the mentality of ‘what a man can do a woman can
do better’, a lie devil has used to deceive and
destroy so many ladies today, please do away with
it.
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